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How To Stop Your Cat's Unwanted Behavior

January 29, 2020 3 Comments

How To Stop Your Cat's Unwanted Behavior

Every few days, a note like this shows up in my Cat School Instagram messages:

"Hey, I like your account, BUT I'm more interested in training my cat NOT to do certain things. I don’t care about teaching my cat tricks."

Not everyone is as enthusiastic about teaching cats fun behaviors as I am, and that's ok. If your only goal is to stop your cat's unwanted behaviors like biting, scratching the furniture, and waking you up in the middle of the night, this post is for you.

Here is my three-step approach to stopping your cat from doing things you don't want them to do. There is also a chart where I zoom in on how to solve some of the most common problem behaviors cats exhibit.

STEP 1: Identify The WTF!

In cat training, WTF stands for “What's The Function” — not what you were thinking! What's the function of the behavior means we need to understand why the cat is doing what they are doing. A cat that jumps on the counter to steal food will need a different training plan than a cat that jumps on the counter for attention. The other day someone reached out to ask me how to solve their cat's incessant meowing around feeding time. To help them, I needed to understand if the cat was pushy/mouthy or not fed sufficiently. The latter was the case, and I suggested changing their feeding schedule. First, identify why your cat is doing the behavior, and then we can work on how to get them to stop.

STEP 2: Manage The Situation

Once you establish why your cat is being naughty, it's time to stop them from getting reinforced for it. So that means if your cat is jumping on the counter to get food, we need to make sure there is never any food left up there. Let's say your cat jumps on the counter while you are making dinner. You could prevent this by occupying your cat with a food puzzle while you cook. A management plan is critical to your success because when your cat practices inappropriate behavior, you will be setting your training back. Consider playing a slot machine as an analogy to your cat's behavior. When you play slots, you don't win every time, but you are motivated to keep playing because of the possibility of winning. If your cat jumps on the counter and finds food only one out of ten times, that unwanted behavior is going to become even stronger because your cat has learned they need to try at least ten times (or more) to win. The management step is probably the hardest step to implement because it requires being prepared, monitoring your cat, and getting everyone in the family on board.

STEP 3: Train An Alternative Behavior

Once you are managing the behavior, it's time to train an alternative behavior. For problem behaviors like door-dashing and counter-surfing, switch the focus away from what you want your cat to STOP doing and focus on what you WANT them to do instead. If your cat is jumping on the counter because they want food, one solution is to TRAIN your cat to go to an appropriate spot where they can get food. Imagine there are two spots available for you to park, parking spot A and parking spot B. Every time you park in parking spot A, someone immediately delivers you a candy bar. When you park in parking spot B nothing happens. Where are you going to park? We want to create a parking spot for your cat that is better than the counter – a place where they find treats and gets rewards whenever they park their little furry butt there. Once your cat knows the best place to park, you won't need to worry about them parking in the wrong spot.

Teach your cat what to do Instead of what not to do

Problem Behavior Purpose Of The Behavior Prevention Training Examples

Cat bites during brushing

To get the human to stop the brushing

Stop brushing until you are following a training plan

Gently place the brush on the cat and feed your cat a treat to make a positive association with the brush. The cat should notice the brush but not be upset about it. Gradually increase the length of time you brush.

Cat jumps on the counter

To steal food

Distract with a food puzzle during food preparation time

Create a new spot for your cat to go to get food and train them to go there.

Cat darts out the door

To go outside

Distract your cat with a food puzzle when you leave

Teach your cat to sit/stay at a spot when the door is open.

Cat wakes you up in the middle of the night

To get fed

Set an automatic feeder

Train your cat at night so they are full and tired before bedtime.

Cat scratches the furniture

To get attention

Cover the areas the cat scratches with blankets/sheets, etc.

Place a sturdy scratching post near the zones that your cat is scratching and clicker train them to scratch the post.

What Do I Do When I Catch My Cat Misbehaving?

Now, I know what you are thinking. What should you do if your cat does the thing you don't want them to do? Depending on what it is, you can ignore them or redirect them. If your cat is scratching the furniture, you should redirect them to a more appropriate object. If your cat jumps on the counter, and there's no food, you may want to ignore that until they realize it's boring and jump off. If you shoo them off, you might inadvertently be reinforcing their behavior because they got something they wanted — your attention. A word of caution: anything you ask your cat to do AFTER they practice the bad behavior can turn into a chain. For example, let's say that after your cat jumps on the counter, they jump off. And you want to reward them for jumping off, so you give them a treat. Guess what? You may have taught them a chain: Jump on -> Jump off -> Get a treat. Repeat. You could be accidentally reinforcing the jumping on the counter. Yikes! Prevention is essential when trying to get rid of problem behaviors! Always reflect on what you could have done to prevent the incident.

Why You Shouldn't Discipline Your Cat

There are several reasons why you should never discipline your cat with spray bottles, scruffing, or even a firm NO! It is likely that your cat will not equate the action with the behavior and won't understand why you are doing something hurtful to them. Your cat may associate you with these painful and scary actions and become anxious and fearful around you, deteriorating your relationship. Telling your cat to stop doing something like scratching, doesn't teach them where they can scratch. Imagine someone telling you, don't do this, don't do that, and so on. It can be an incredibly frustrating experience when you don't understand why someone reprimands you; the same is true for cats. Another reason not to punish your cat is that it may make them more aggressive. In response to being hurt when you scruff them, your cat may instinctively turn around and bite you. When you have a battle with your cat, you both lose. Punishment-based methods are a one-way street to hurting your cat. When your only tool is punishment, the only option you have is to punish more intensely.

To improve your cat's behavior and maintain your connection, focus your attention on reward-based methods and teach your cat acceptable behaviors. If you can't figure out how to do it on your own, consult with a feline behaviorist. Steer clear from any advice that tells you to use forceful methods.

What's Next?

Start learning how to train your cat. In my online class, I show you two ways to teach your cat to go to a parking spot, which is a critical behavior to resolving counter-surfing, door-dashing, and improving interactions with multiple cats. Once students have the foundation behaviors in place, I'm always happy to help them get to the finish line with their problem behaviors.

But Really, It Is All About The Tricks

Although we all want quick tips to solve the issues we have, sometimes the solution involves spending a little time enriching your cat's life with learning. Many cats exhibit problem behaviors because they are bored. Whether it's a trick or a practical behavior, it's all the same to your cat: an opportunity to channel their energy in a fun and rewarding activity.


To enrich your cat's life with learning, check out our signature training program, Clicking With Your Cat.



3 Responses

Jennifer
Jennifer

February 18, 2020

Hi Nadia! A food dispensing ball has solved the sassy swatting at our legs for food behavior. Good luck!

Christine Lim
Christine Lim

February 18, 2020

How to train my cat from meowing for attention?

Nadia
Nadia

February 17, 2020

This is great! Do you have any tips for cats that like take a bite at your leg for attention or food?

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